We are buying more online now than ever. It is not unusual at special occasions to have multiple boxes delivered to your home. Some you can tell without looking that they are a book, a cd or shoes. Other boxes require opening to even have a hint. The thing they all have in common is …
One of my favourite stories is a Native American legend. A tale in which a grandfather tells his adoring grandson that inside of all us are two battling wolves. Wolves are majestic creatures and great warriors and so this is a constant battle, with no surrender. These wolves represent all that is light, …
Very often my clients, friends or even just people in general will say things like, “It’s okay for you, you are confident. You are a public speaker, you are a trainer, so you are used to standing in front of the room.” It has not always been that way. I spent my childhood frightened to …
Some self-help books talk about how you can have everything, just like the guys on the cover stood in glossy suits, next to sports cars with a house in somewhere exotic. Other sages will say that you must work within your scope. Strange thing is both are true. You may think it impossible for the …
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Have you ever fallen fowl of procrastination? If you have then you will appreciate the importance of decision-making in the moment, no matter what size the decision is. You may also appreciate that there is a hidden superpower held within these small decisions. Small decisions like whether to make a coffee and rearrange …
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Shit happens. If nothing else is certain in life, then that is. No-one is so good at planning they never have to turn to plan B or take time out. Many of these unexpected changes are beautiful opportunities, but what happens when they are not? What happens when that shit hits the fan? Well we …
If you constantly keep things inside, don’t say them out loud, then they build up causing resentment or illness. Just like an overpacked box it will eventually spill over or explode. One way to say it is to write it, even if it is only to yourself. If you write it, eventually you …
Mum used to say, “If you can’t say anything nice, don’t say anything at all.” Well unless you are mid bitch-fest it isn’t really what you say it’s more about where you say it from. For example, if I said something in anger it would be from a place of wanting to lash …